Hello Shore Lane!

Hooray, we finally did it!

Grammy and I moved out of “the big house” on Waterloo Circle in June 2014, then lived at the beach for 14 months which included one of the worst winters in New England history.  Our new house is great… a lot smaller and more manageable; nice & comfy.  It’s only two steps from the garage inside the house vs. 13 at Waterloo (so easy) with everything we need on one floor.  It’s a handy location, on the south side of Dover, close to Portsmouth and Route 95.  Lots of new memories of you, our super-dooper-trooper grandchildren, will happen at 30 Shore Lane!

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where oh where are Ainsley & Molly? Not on the beach!!

Sometimes I can’t find you or Molly on a bright sunny beach day. Whrere oh where have you gone?  I know of course… you’re inside the beach house playing games in the bedroom upstairs.  You have a blast together that’s for sure… but hey… remember to come outside and say Hello Papa! every once in awhile!  You can grab a boogie board with your favorite cousin and do some cartwheels on the beach. Happy Summer!the summer flies by so fast... sometimes I can't find you on the beach and that's because you and Ainsley are inside playing games in the upstairs bedroom!  you have a blast together.

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our July birthday girl

happy birthday Ainsley, our July birthday girl! 

I love these two photos – the first one is from this summer… you were hitting the ball like crazy and took a break so I could capture this shot. 

Grammy and I went to your house and brought you “Grace” the American Doll of The Year 2015.  You loved her! We also gave you some cash which your brother promptly put in his pocket – ha!  Then we went out to dinner in Portland and had a blast on a beautiful, warm summer night.

Here are eight things I love about you:  Eight cool things for a cool  eight year old:

1.  always trying hard – when you decide to do something, you’re “all in” and there’s no stopping you. I love that determination and drive.  This will serve you well as you get older!

2. smart – you take school seriously and excel, trying hard to do the best you can.

3.  sweet –  I love it when you come over to me and want me to put my arm around you, hug you, listen to you.  It’s done in a low key Ainsley style, so sincere, caring and kind.  I have so many memories of watching you dance, or endlessly do gymnastics, or racing you in a field… a smile on your face, trying so hard and loving how I watch you, do things with you, care about you.

4. beautiful –  what a smile, what a look.  You will always take a great photo Miss Ainsley and people will fall in love with you… not just because of your beauty of course, but for so many other reasons (some of which I mention in this blog!).

5.  a talented, natural gymnast and natural athlete – sometimes you hold yourself back (see onion girl) but the bottom line is that you are a natural athlete.  Believe it!  A fast runner, unbelievably coordinated. a natural gymnast, able to hit a moving softball.

6.  onion girl –  I call you this because the Ainsley (some) people see on the surface often isn’t always the true Ainsley.  You can be quiet and reserved sometimes, but then out comes the precocious Ainsley for all to see!  You can be shy and hold back, but you’re also brave and adventurous!  You can be sad, but in a flash you’re laughing and happy!  Sometimes you don’t want to play sports, and that may lead people to think you don’t like sports (if they don’t know you well like I do), but then you show off your speed, coordination and determination.  As Shrek once told Donkey, “onions have layers, lots of layers!”  That’s you Miss Ainsley.

7.  naturally confident –  last year you had to face a very challenging obstacle:  move from your comfortable home in Madbury, NH up to a new city and new school in Maine.  You didn’t flinch, making friends easily and never having a bad day.  Not many people can do that in life… this says a lot about you!

8.  a fashion sense –  you enjoy looking good, and always do!  You have your own sense of fashion and it’s something I notice every time we’re around each other.

Love you Ainsley and happy eighth birthday summer girl!

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welcome beach days 2015!

Splish Splash!

When all 13 of us got together at the beach house for Father’s Day, it didn’t take long before 7 of the 13 had made their way into the cold Atlantic Ocean!  Let’s just say none of us were surprised!  There’s nothing like the beach to bring people out of their winter/spring cocoons to crazy land.  Welcome beach days 2015!

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a beachy keen Easter egg hunt in 2015

You had all searched for eggs, top to bottom, at the beach house.

Nothing. Zero. Zilch. Nada.

No eggs to be found anywhere.

Grammy said “the Easter bunny told me he definitely left eggs behind.”

Jack said:  “The Easter bunny didn’t come because you don’t have any kids.”

There was no place left to look, nowhere else to go… except for outside, which is exactly what did.  There before you was a vast beach, sand and white sea shells all around. And  no eggs in sight.

All of you – except for Ben – started making your way toward the water.  Ben kept studying the scene, trying to figure it out.  He kicked over one of the white shells, and there was a red Easter egg buried in the sand, hidden by the shell.

 “Hey guys,” he shouted, “they’re up here.”

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You ran up toward the sea wall and soon a full scale frantic Easter egg hunt was in process.  Under nearly 100 white sea shells – we counted them later – were brightly colored eggs, each one containing money and candy.  You took your blue and white bags and began filling them up with the holiday treats.

Soon the hunt was over and everyone was back in the beach house, munching on chocolate, counting money and dreaming of what to buy with your gift cards from Grammy and I.

It was a memorable Easter, the first one we’ve ever had at the beach house, and the first time we’ve ever had an egg hunt outside.  Cool, fun, different!  Goodbye giant Waterloo house in Dover…   hello vast beach sand along the Atlantic ocean!

an Earth Day we’ll never forget

Jewell Falls is in Portland, Maine, the city’s only waterfall.  Most people have never heard of it, let alone seen it.  I had heard about it for years and so when Spring school vacation week arrived, I drove up, gathered you up and off we went to see it for ourselves.  It was Earth Day 2015, a perfect day for a hike, the best possible way to celebrate Mother Nature and the beauty that surrounds us every day.

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After some “arcading” at Family fun Center we headed over to Rowe Avenue, driving through a neighborhood on a dead end road.  “This doesn’t look like the right place for a waterfall,” Ainsley said.  We kept on going, and when we reached the end, there was a sign, an arrow and a place for two cars to park – both empty spaces.  Ainsley was right, It didn’t look like much, but we gathered our faith, jackets and camera and headed left along a railroad track.  A distant train whistle filled the air and we braced for a view, but we had just missed it.

The open fields soon gave way to a thicker forest – so odd because we were close to houses, streets and cars.  An oasis in an urban setting. A Jewell in the rough.

I asked a few hikers “is there a waterfall on this trail?” and they said yes.  Off we went through the early spring forest which was still muddy and lacking leaves.

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The two of you ran ahead, cresting a hill above the trail.  “We can see it!” you shouted and soon so could I.  It was a surprisingly pretty waterfall with great water flow helped by a record breaking winter snowfall.

IMG_9946After hanging out at the base, we continued our climb, up the path along the waterfall toward the bridge cresting the top of the hill.  After a bit of exploring (including floating pieces of bark and acorn top hats), we looked down the waterfall.  I noticed something in the water at the edge of the first cascade.  I was convinced it was a statue of a turtle someone had placed there from the neighborhood to decorate Portland’s only waterfall.

“Come over here and try to find something that looks alive but really isn’t.”

Ainsley bolted over first and quickly spotted it.  “It’s a turtle! There it is!”  Camden spotted it in the water, and I looked at it again.  But this time the statue moved.  It was a live turtle, a big snapping turtle, one of the biggest I’ve ever seen.  Then it started to move, s-l-o- w-l-y, toward the edge of the waterfall.

“He’s going to fall down the waterfall,” we shouted, not believing what we were seeing. We were captivated as he drew close to the edge and eventually he put his head down and soon plummeted down the first cascade.

IMG_9953We ran over the bridge and down the path to where he would land.  We watched as our friend – now nicknamed Tommy the Terrific Turtle – made numerous twists and turns in the air and water.  He landed by a rock, seemingly alive and well, perhaps a bit shook up, with a face full of cold spring water bubbles.

IMG_9963He s-l-o-w-l-y headed toward the shore.  We figured he had had enough and was going to climb back onto terra firma, back to solid ground and safety.  He looked tired and distraught.

That’s when we started shouting “Go, go, go!” and “Don’t give up!” and “You can do it Tommy!”and other words of encouragement. We kept chanting, loudly, not caring what anyone in the area might think (if there was anyone around).  We watched carefully as the tired terrapin looked directly at us, up the hill to where we were standing on the path, as if to acknowledge our faith in his fearlessness.

Then he turned around s-l-o-w-l-y and did the another amazing thing:  he walked back into the water, venturing, eventually, toward the edge of the second cascade.  We couldn’t believe he was going for it again!  Other hikers had made their way down from the bridge at that point, and I told them about the intrepid terrapin.  After quickly spotting Tommy (it wasn’t hard because he was so big), they too were mesmerized. Together, in a common bond, we watched this Earth Day treasure repeat a remarkable achievement I can bet  none of us ever see again in our lifetimes.

IMG_9968IMG_9970Down down down Tommy went, flipping and flying, gliding and galavanting down the second cascade, eventually landing on his back at the base of the falls, “showing off his privates” as Ainsley said.

IMG_9977Tommy’s audience was stunned.  Would he be able to right himself?  Would we have to wade into the water and try to save him? Would he drown?

After wondering if he was permanently stuck in that position, he eventually righted himself and proceeded s-l-o-w-l-y toward the bottom of the waterfall.  There he posed with Ainsley and Camden in the afternoon sunshine. You can see Tommy in the background to the right, dizzy and drenched, but proud of his achievement.

IMG_9987Sometimes the most ordinary acts turn into extraordinary achievements.  Tommy the Terrific Turtle could have walked the customary path to the bottom, over the bridge, or along the edges of the waterfall, taking the usual, safe, normal course.

But Tommy was a terrapin of a harder, more independent shell, with a love of adventure and an appreciation for risk and reward and taking the road less traveled.

We talked about it the rest of the day, laughing and re-telling our tale.  I encouraged you to write a story and Camden said “we’ll get it published as a kid book.”  It was an Earth Day we’ll never forget.